Saturday, 22 June 2013

10 Habits Of Women That Can Irritate Their Husbands

It is always the women who are seen cribbing about one or the other habits of their husbands that irritate them. The issues that bother women are generally very small for men and are usually unnoticeable for them. What most women fail to realize is that there are certain habits of them which are equally loathed by their husbands. It would really be helpful if you read some of them and eventually try to avoid them. This will surely strengthen your relationship. The ten habits of women that can irritate their husband are:

1. Not keeping an eye on fuel meter: Women are no doubt good drivers, but to be more honest they are negligent towards the fuel meter. Men often crib about this carelessness and feel irritated when they are stuck in the middle of the road.

2. Treating him as your kid: When you don’t like the fact that he compares you to his mother, why do you compare him with your children. He is a grown up man and wants you to realize the same fact. Allow him to take his decision and respect his view point and opinions. Don’t nag him about what he eats or what he does.

3. Getting involved in a quiz show: Men like to spend some peaceful time watching movies or sports. Women, who accompany their husbands in watching TV, impatiently quiz about the story, the actor or even the plot. Men also get irritated when they are constantly asked about where they are or what they are doing.

4. Criticism all along: Men feel that however good they might be, it is never enough for their wives. Some wives have a constant urge to nag their husband for some or the other reason and this is one thing that every man hates about his wife. Some women feel that this is an inseparable part of their relationship.


5. Washing dirty linen in public: Men hate to discuss their private life in public while women love to get the sympathy by involving a third person in their personal lives. Involving a third person is the biggest mistake that women make in their relationships. So keep all your differences between yourself and take a mature approach in solving them.

6. Trying to change them: Usually women fail to realize that they are trying to change the very person with whom they fell in love with. Every man wants his woman to acknowledge that he is a distinct man and is not ready to transform himself into someone completely different.

7. Giving them their due importance: Men like to get involved in all the major decisions of household, be it about making any investment or even buying a washing machine or a refrigerator. Involving them in such decisions make them feel important and a part of the household.

8. Ignoring their advice: This is one habit that each and every person on this earth hates irrespective of his gender. Even you must have done it several times in your life. Remember the last time, you took him for shopping and tried at least a dozen dresses asking his opinion. Then irrespective of his choice, you went ahead with your choice. This is sure to piss anyone off.

9. Avoiding physical intimacy: Barring physical intimacy is one of the biggest weapons that women use, while men use it as a form to express themselves and their love. Avoiding physical intimacy makes men feel unwanted and thus frustrated. Women need to understand that getting intimate is the only way that men know to end their arguments.

10. Getting doubtful: The general nature of men is to look at every woman around them. If they see a beautiful girl going past them, they are not proposing them or going ahead with an affair. When women doubt their husband for this habit of their, they are casting their doubt on them. This makes men highly irritated.

I’m sure you would have realized that out of these ten habits, you must have nodded your head and realized that you make the same mistakes. If you also have some of these habits and wonder why your husband stays irritated even while you shower all your love and caring on him, then it is high time you change your ways. Accept the fact that men need their own space. Going out for an occasional beer with friends or going for a football match is perfectly fine.