One of the most difficult parts of the life is the breakup.
The never ending grieving mode and torture that we put our body through because
of a breakup is shocking and amusing at the same time. The pain of being lonely
and the feeling that this pain is forever.
But with the help of friends and constant motivation it is
possible to come over this feeling. During the phase when you are trying to get
over a bad breakup, here are 5 phrases that surely help you:
1. I love myself
1. I love myself
Believe it or not, it works. Self-love is important and we
must realize that we are the only ones responsible for our actions and choices.
If you love yourself, you will be able to master your feelings and not some
idiot who broke your heart.
2. When I get sad, I stop being sad and be awesome instead
Who doesn’t want to feel happy and satisfied? Who wants to
be bothered by small things? Nobody, so keep telling yourself that you want to
be happy and even force a fake smile until you get a real smile. At times, a
fake smile is better than a no smile. There is no doubt that smile reduces your
stress and anxiety levels.
3. I don’t miss him, I miss who I thought he was
Most of the times we don’t realize that whether we are truly
in love with the real person or the picture of the person we have in our minds.
When we break up, we miss the person who we thought he was and not the real
person.
4. Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together
You need to keep in
mind that each situation has some positive aspects to it. To get through
a break up, you must learn to appreciate yourself. You are a strong person and
you can get through this as just at the end of this road, lies the happiness
and something better waiting for you.
5. Life always waits for some crisis to occur before revealing itself at its most brilliant
Most importantly, a break up teaches us that there is
something more important in your life, that needs your attention. After a
breakup, you have a better idea of what you want and get a clear idea about it
and focus. List down your preferences and then find the person of your dreams.
And this time, be careful when you choose the partner.
Once you realize that it is important to be happy and value yourself, the half of the battle is won. Now, you just need to believe these phrases and lead a happy and cheerful life.
